”I can’t be upset” But shit, I’m upset! A few years ago, I wouldn’t let myself feel negative feelings, I would feel guilty don’t know exactly why. But eventually, I got suffocated. Many things happened, but today I just accept all my feelings, without blocking anything, the good and the bad ones. I repeat the […]Read More Please, be honest with yourself.
I mean it. Don’t wait a “better time” to travel. There will always be responsibilities in our life that demands a lot of time. In between these responsibilities, there will be the opportunities asking for you to travel, whether it’s vaycay time, a birthday, a marriage, a new job, holidays or whatever. Whenever this opportunity […]Read More Travel. Whenever you can, as much as you can.
Cheesiness is my name and I don’t care. Love you, babe. I’ve been single most of my life. Always hanging out with people, but never in a serious relationship, never for real. I’d rather be single and happy than with the wrong partner. If I’m gonna spend most of time and energy with one person, it better be […]Read More The delight of being in a healthy relationship.
So, here you are putting yourself out there. Learning new stuff for your new business. You’re both excited and scared. Welcome to the club. You might be considered crazy, or think you’re going crazy. That’s okay, it’s part of the process. I’ve come to accept the fact that to be and to do things differently […]Read More When you start a new business and you’re insecure AF.
It’s almost Christmas time and New year’s eve, so I sat my but down and wrote all the lessons this year had taught me. I went through so much this year, that it deserved a post. Actually, every end of the year, we should take our time to think about our gains and losses, and […]Read More What I learned in 2017
Have you heard of Impostor syndrome? According to Wikipedia (yes, Wikipedia, I know),”Is a concept describing individuals who are marked by an inability to internalize their accomplishments and a persistent fear of being exposed as a “fraud”.” In other words, pretty much myself and many other 20s something. You know the feeling that anybody can […]Read More Fuck my insecurities.
PS: Here’s a photo of me scared AF before jumping on a 50m free fall. I just wanted to plug that in, thank you. If a decision scares the shit out of you, you should do it. As long it’s not gonna get you killed, of course. This is my new life motto. I always thought […]Read More ”Do lots of scary shit. Repeat.”
It was only a month ago that I thought about the fact I don’t give myself second chances, even though I give three, four chances to everybody else. How come I never thought about self-forgiveness before? To forgive is such an important part of who I am and my values. Still, I forgot about myself. […]Read More We need to forgive ourselves more often.
As fuck, yeah. Ever since I started understanding about privileges, I understood the importance of being grateful for what you have. On one hand, I had a bunch of amazing things in my life, without effort. On the other hand, I saw all the people who had everything and kept being miserable and grumpy about what they […]Read More I am grateful AF.
Edit: Not ALL clichés, please. “When life gives you lemons, make lemonade”. from the old ones to the cheesy ones, we’ve heard them all. Most of my life I tried to avoid cliches or use it only for a pun intended, but recently when life gave me a lot of lemons, I started thinking about how those […]Read More Life clichés are my new friends.